the business of breakups

A blog about breakups and the practice of law by writer and family law lawyer Zara Suleman provides resources and reflections beyond the law – a holistic approach to heartbreak, divorce, separation, and moving on.

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Violence against women is not an anamoly

Not an Anomaly: Violence Against Women in Family Law

What if we practiced family law like violence against women was not an anomaly but a likelihood? A reality?
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Family Law, kindness, and compassion can make lawyers anxious

A “Kind” of Practice

If we want lawyers to have longevity and health (in all forms) in the practice of law we are going to need to model kindness more; speak about kindness, embrace it and practice it.
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your file your life

Your FILE, Your client’s LIFE

Our clients live with the long-term consequences of their family law matters. Our conduct as lawyers on a file can make this process better or worse and we need to check ourselves as family law practitioners and really listen to our clients.
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breaking up, divorce, house, support, kids

Breaking up: Without Lawyers (Mostly)*

Imagine breaking up and then working with your ex-partner to come up with an agreement regarding assets, children and support - without lawyers! It can be done.
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A card shows an apology

I’m Sorry: Making Space in Family Law for the Apology

An apology can fundamentally change the direction of a family law matter. Building a court process that is civil can improve your outcome.
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A photo showing a broken heart

The New Economy of Heartbreak

The heartbroken are willing to spend a few hundred to a few thousand dollars to heal from their suffering and then re-emerge stronger and more able to move on.
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