Dear Family Law: What Will it Take?

Dear Family Law:

• 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence (World Health Organization).

• Women in Canada are more likely than men to experience intimate partner violence. According to 2018 police-reported data, women accounted for almost 8 in 10 victims (79%) of intimate partner violence (https://cfc-swc.gc.ca/violence/knowledge-connaissance/ipv-vpi-en.html).

• Approximately every six days a woman in Canada is killed by her intimate partner (Canadian Women’s Foundation).

• Men caused more than 90% of violent deaths of women and girls in 2020 (https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/femicide-canada-1.5953953).

• Almost 50% of survey participants of women surviving violence were advised by their family law lawyer to not bring up the family violence in court. (Rise Women’s Legal Centre, report – Why Can’t Everyone Just Get Along? See: https://womenslegalcentre.ca/report-why-cant-everyone-just-get-along-how-bcs-family-law-system-puts-survivors-in-danger )

We have to recognize if we do not meaningfully and consistently address violence against women in family law we will continue to leave women at risk.

We have to recognize that gender-based violence is not a rare occurrence but a regular, hourly, daily reality for the majority of women.

If women feel unsafe in raising their experience of family violence or are unsupported in raising their experience of family violence in their family law cases, we have to see this as a failure of our justice system.

We must do more.

Zara Suleman practices family law and fertility law and is the founder of the law firm, Suleman Family Law. She is also a certified family law mediator and collaborative law practitioner. Zara has also been actively involved in presenting, training, writing and editing materials on family law issues. She has done extensive professional development and academic research in the areas of family violence, specifically violence against women and children. Prior to law school Zara was a front-line community advocate for over a decade, working extensively on issues involving violence against women and children, anti- racism, immigrant and refugee issues. Zara has had her short stories, poetry, articles and research accepted to various publications across Canada and the United States. Zara was awarded the 2018 Equality & Diversity Award from the Canadian Bar Association BC Branch. Zara's professional website is at - sulemanfamilylaw.com -

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